James: thank you for sharing. Your desire to foster communication with true freedom to free us did, to a certain extent I think. When I moved here to the US in 1992, I waited 2-3 months to hear back from my friends back in Vietnam, via snail mail. Now, they are all on Facebook. My friend Vy visited last year from Melbourne, it took her seconds to let me know, and our families saw each other. So we were free, thanks to you and folks of your kin. But most of the time, we don’t talk. The mind is sometimes too agile for its own happiness, it forgets quickly what it was so grateful for a few seconds back. And the freedom is now the handcuff. I had never heard Major Lazer, I’m jamming to them. It’s pretty cool, thank you for sharing. I can’t wait to see you and Kristie again. And thanks for putting this site up, what a way to get to know you and your search.